WHEN A PARENT ALLEGING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE FLEES WITH THE CHILD OVER STATE-LINES AND THE OTHER PARENT ALLEGES “PARENTAL KIDNAPPING” — WHAT HAPPENS NEXT?
DOES IT MATTER IF THE PARENT WHO IS ABUSED IS A MAN?
by Karen Winner
I came professionally face-to-face with these issues above, in a recent case I handled in New York, where I represented the man who had been abused by his wife.
First, to get a better idea of the issues and laws involved, let’s look at a hypothetical example (originally based on a case cited by a publication of the U.S. Department of Justice ) that sets forth the process and the law. Then, I will relate the New York case I handled, in which I prevailed at the trial and Appellate level.
In the first hypothetical example: following a fight with her husband, a battered wife takes the couple’s child from their Wisconsin home to Illinois and seeks refuge at a domestic violence shelter. In Illinois, the mother files for custody of the child on emergency jurisdiction grounds. She gives her husband the requisite notice that she is in Illinois.
The child’s father does not respond to the mother’s suit in Illinois. The court in Illinois grants the mother temporary custody, stipulating that the order will become permanent after 6 months if no proceeding is commenced in Wisconsin, the child’s home state.
The father, however, commences a custody proceeding in the child’s home state of Wisconsin soon after receiving notice of the mother’s Illinois action for custody.
The father accuses the mother of parental kidnapping.
The mother receives notice of the legal proceeding in Wisconsin via her attorney.
What happens in this situation?
The Wisconsin court — where the left-behind father resides, and Illinois court — where the mother and child now reside — will communicate with each other, as they must under the law — specifically, the Uniform Child- Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (the UCCJEA). This Act has been passed in 49 states. Under this law, the Wisconsin court may cede jurisdiction to Illinois, where the mother and child fled — depending on a variety of factors the Wisconsin court will consider.
The Wisconsin court will look at facts to see whether the domestic violence has occurred, and whether it is likely to occur in the future. The Wisconsin court will consider which state could best protect the parties and the child. After looking at the merits, the Wisconsin court can make a choice to decline to hear the case, giving the new state, Illinois, jurisdiction over the custody lawsuit to see whether the temporary order granting the mother custody, will become permanent.
But what happens when the roles are reversed, and the victimized spouse is a man, and the mother accuses him of parental kidnapping, after he flees to a new state with the couple’s child?
This was exactly the situation in the case I handled in New York, after a father fled with the couple’s child from New York to Massachusetts, and alleged the mother had committed domestic violence.
In this case, the parents and child had only resided in New York City for three weeks or so when the mother committed domestic violence against the father. He fled to Massachusetts and obtained a temporary court order for custody. The mother then brought a proceeding in New York, and the question became this: was the father justified in leaving New York with their child? The New York court heard facts and evidence of the domestic violence and made the choice: the New York Family Court decided to give up jurisdiction based on the domestic violence, and the fact that the Massachusetts court said it could expedite the custody matter, whereas the New York court would not be able to hear the matter for a year or more, due to the backlog of cases in Brooklyn. The mother appealed the trial court’s decision, and the matter went to a higher court for review — the Appellate Court. The decision of the Appellate court is below, affirming for the father.
Matter of Peiyi Wang v Christensen, 165 A.D.3d 1269
Export Citation
Supreme Court of New York, Appellate Division, Second Department
October 31, 2018, Decided
2018-01742 (Docket No. V-27854-17)
Reporter
165 A.D.3d 1269 * | 84 N.Y.S.3d 808 ** | 2018 N.Y. App. Div. LEXIS 7286 *** | 2018 NY Slip Op 07315 **** | 2018 WL 5623921
[****1] In the Matter of Peiyi Wang, appellant, v Gregory James Christensen, respondent.
Counsel: [***1] Proskauer Rose, LLP, New York, NY (John H. Gross of counsel), for appellant.
Karen F. Winner, New York, NY (Nancy Erickson of counsel), for respondent.
Judges: HERYL E. CHAMBERS, J.P., SYLVIA O. HINDS-RADIX, HECTOR D. LASALLE, ANGELA G. IANNACCI, JJ. CHAMBERS, J.P., HINDS-RADIX, LASALLE and IANNACCI, JJ., concur.
Opinion
[**808] [*1269] DECISION & ORDER
In a child custody proceeding pursuant to Family Court Act article 6, the mother appeals from an order of the Family Court, Kings County (Dean Kusakabe, J.), dated December 18, 2017. The order dismissed the mother’s petition for custody of the subject child on the ground that New York is an inconvenient forum.
ORDERED that the order is affirmed, without costs or disbursements.
Pursuant to Domestic Relations Law § 76-f, a court with jurisdiction to make a child custody determination under Domestic Relations Law article 5-A may decline to exercise such jurisdiction if it determines that New York is an inconvenient forum and that another state is a more appropriate forum (see Domestic Relations Law § 76-f[1]; Matter of Mzimaz v Barik, 89 AD3d 948, 933 N.Y.S.2d 79). The factors to be considered in making this [**809] determination include: (1) whether domestic violence or child abuse has occurred and is likely to occur in the future and which state could best protect the parties and the child; (2) the length of time the child has resided outside the State; [***2] (3) the distance between the court in this state and the court in the state that would assume jurisdiction; (4) the relative financial circumstances of the parties; (5) any agreement of the parties as to which state should assume jurisdiction; (6) the nature and location of the evidence required to resolve the pending litigation; (7) the ability of the court of each state to decide the issue expeditiously and the procedures necessary to present the evidence; and (8) the familiarity of the court of each state with the facts and issues in the pending litigation (see Domestic Relations Law § 76-f[2]; Matter of Paderno v Shvetsova, 96 AD3d 762, 945 N.Y.S.2d 761).
[*1270] Here, the Family Court providently exercised its discretion in declining jurisdiction over the mother’s custody petition and determining that the court in Massachusetts was a more appropriate forum. The mother committed an act of domestic violence against the father in New York on October 5, 2017, resulting in the issuance of an order of protection against the mother in the father’s favor. The father thereafter went to Massachusetts with the child for the father’s own protection. A The Massachusetts court issued a temporary order of custody to the father and is well aware of the issues in this matter. In addition, the Massachusetts court’s calendar is less backlogged, thereby affording a more expeditious resolution of the custody [****2] matter. Accordingly, the Family Court properly dismissed the mother’s petition for custody on the ground that New York is an inconvenient forum and that Massachusetts is a more appropriate forum.
The parties’ remaining contentions are without merit.
CHAMBERS, J.P., HINDS-RADIX, LASALLE and IANNACCI, JJ., concur.